Connection refused is that the server refuse you to connect to it.. i would suggest try another server? try one as close to you as possible.. as an example, im from sweden, then i try use a swedish server.. *.se ... England *.uk .. USA *.us and so on.. and also try a diffrent port.. 6667 is often used ..

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