Seems my point was misintepreted and validated at the same time.

Referring ppl to sticky threads on not helping with this, or tips to resolve dcc probs, or to info on helps to educate them.

Educate them on what exactly? How to resolve the issues stopping them from doing the activities you apparantly don't help with? Kind of cancels out the whole moral standpoint thing doesn't it. What does that leave behind?