I think you missed the point of the replies as well.

Say you own a pub/bar, someone comes in, and the first thing they are seen to do is lean over the bar and poor them selfs a beer.
Do you
(A) call the bouncer and have them removed (instant kick ban)
(B) yell at them to not do that sh!t (all caps warning)
(C) politely ask them to refrain from such behavour becuase your girlfriend has you whipped so hard she might see it and beat you down for that as well. (polite request to not do it)