Hi mlleelise!
Have you tried downloading a new
servers.ini? Right click the link and choose "Save As". Then simply replace the old servers.ini in your mIRC folder with this new one.
The great thing about IRC is that it's global. As long as you're on the same network (EFNet, DalNet, IRCNet, QuakeNet ....) you can communicate with anyone, from any location in the world. I would never have met the wonderful people in #mIRC on EFNet for instance it it weren't for IRC since I live in Sweden and most of my friends in #mIRC live in other parts of the world.
It doesn't matter where the server you are connected to is located as long as you know which network you want to be on.
So just keep connecting to a european server if it works for you!