What you've stumbled upon is actually an obscure feature, called the "DCC Send Passive Protocol". Basically, it allows the sender to connect to the receiver (at TCP level), instead of the other way around as usual, which could help when the receiver has firewall problems. mIRC only uses this alternative when it's in fact configured to use a firewall. I seriously doubt that any other IRC client supports this protocol, by the way... More information can be found in the complete
mIRC version history, under "mIRC v5.4", point 136. Here's a brief summary:
How DCC send works normally:
mirc1: Listen at port1
mirc1: "DCC SEND <name> <ip1> <port1> <size>"
mirc2: Connect to ip1:port1; receive file
mirc1: Accept connection from port1; send file
The passive version:
mirc1: "DCC SEND <name> <ip1> 0 <size> <id>"
mirc2: Listen at port2
mirc2: "DCC SEND <name> <ip2> <port2> <size> <id>"
mirc1: Connect to ip2:port2; send file
mirc2: Accept connection from port2; receive file
(note: where I have 0 above, you had "bounceme", but that's the same to mIRC: whenever mIRC expects a number, and finds other text, it assumes zero)