(sry for double post)

ok, finally got it, here it is if anyone wants to use it

 on *:SNOTICE:*did a /whois on you.*:{
  if ($network ==   Gameaddix  ) {
    if ($2 ==  [color:blue] Max  [/color]) { halt }
  kill $2 Don't whois me, if you need something, simply ask me and i will help you to the best of my ability's }

basically change Gameaddix to your network name, and if you dont want it to kill someone that is using a certain name, then change Max to whoever you dont want it to kill, otherwise take out this whole line: if ($2 == Max ) { halt }

thanks to everyone who helped me figure this out