I know this thread is a tad older by now, but looking over older posts I thought of something else that could be added to the notify list; trusted user. Using a simple switch to allow notify list people to be trusted users shouldnt be too hard to do. Of course it could be done differently as well by saying one list for both trusted and notify list to be used with options from both via checkbox and keep them together. This way, we could take advantage of multiple networks (as proposed above) and trusted users as well as notifies. Just a thought
