ok, only time it doesn't seem to happen the file sender is also mirc (even 6.03 though i havn't tried friends using earlier versions). but it's actually fairly rare for file servers to use mirc..
403 views so far and no replies to my orriginal post, isn't anyone else at least having the same problem? i can't beleive it's just me as it happens with any totally fresh mirc6.1x install with everything at defaul I've tried..
