Thank you for all the help so far.....

1. I posted firstly in general discussion by accident.....so then proceded to move my querie to mirc help section...without deleting the general discussion post....( I aint tryin to make everybody see my message.)

2. I did not demand an answer within 4 minutes, i posted a retorical comment which i felt i wanted in my original post.

3. NAT could be the problem, i am looking into it! if i understood it...lol

4. Thank you all again for the help so far.....

5. fresh install comin on!