Not clear what you mean by "set in $me".
If you refer to a 'rule' for $me in 'nick colors', you can get that color like
//echo -a $cnick($me).color or $cnick($me,1).color
which might not be the same as your color in the nicklist if /cline were used to override that
//echo -a $nick($chan,$me).color
If you don't mean this, please be more clear what you did to set the 'in $me'
