First of all, forgive my English, I don't speak it ...

Here is my problem, I need two things:

1) The first is that when a nickname with which I have an open query changes nick, I see the change in that same query window, and thus be able to continue chatting directly in that same window (now it works like this: if someone changes nick, I don't see anything, and if he wrote to me again the person who changed nick, a new query would open).

2: When someone I'm chatting with in the query writes a message, the window lights up, flashes. I would need this even when that person disconnects!

That's all. Unfortunately I don't know about these things, I searched around for a while something that could do for me, but I didn't find anything. I would be grateful if you could give me a hand. Thank you!