ddc send,gets,chats was enabled, udp ip address ident server and dcc connections were enabled so disabled them all.

when i disbled the udp i got a message about my system not being configured,
connected results as follows after editing the bind address to the one i want..

Local host: fdcserve-d5554d (66.*.85)
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desolator is me@66.*.85 * bite

which is the one i entered indeed, after disconnected the local information was also updated and correct.
- after closing and reopening mirc, the address still is there and connects prefectly to the binded ip.