well again i understand but again let's think of it this way. this board has a bunch of posters as well as administrators for help. while you are responding,someone else could be looking. or even without responding they could be looking. how do i know either way? if you are looking,you obviously can't respond and look at the same time. plus you might get busy doing something else. if i just say "hey i need help" and don't get a response,a reminder can come in handy. there's a difference between "has anyone found anything out yet? i'm still here in case you were wondering" and "look i'm tired of waiting. either help me or i'm gonna sue you for every penny you got" choice B is when you hould ignore or even ban the individual. But as i mentioned before since i found the answer to the question i can move on. Thanks again. and if i did in fact annoy anyone i apologize.