ok now it seems to work with /msg $1 and /msg $nick but both $1 and $nick stands for bot itself in this case, and also... the $mes i have in my text file disappeared this is what it did below...
(00:58:37) (MyNick) MyBotNick commands
(00:58:38) ›› Msg: to [ ] : =-==-==-==-==-==-==-=Bot Commands=-==-==-==-==-==-==-=
(00:58:39) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : addown nick adds nick to bot list
(00:58:39) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : delown nick removes nick from bot list
(00:58:40) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : nick newnick changes MyBotNick's nick to newnick
(00:58:41) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : ping nick or pingme ping checker
(00:58:42) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : -level level removes user level specified
(00:58:43) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : botlist shows whois in botlist
(00:58:44) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-lockdown enables, disables lock mode
(00:58:45) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-flyby enables, disables flyby
(00:58:46) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-pvtspy enables, disables MyBotNick's query spyer
(00:58:47) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : listnicks inchannel outchannel shows nicks from channel to channel
(00:58:48) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-autokick nick adds, removes nick to and from autokicker
(00:58:49) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-autoban nick adds, removes nick to and from autobanner
(00:58:49) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-shitlist nick adds, removes nick to and from shitlist
(00:58:50) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-counter enables, disables auto counter
(00:58:51) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : cycle does a quick part and rejoins current channel
(00:58:52) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : join channel joins channel specified
(00:58:53) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : part channel parts channel specified
(00:58:54) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-spy spychan spyresultchan enables, disables channel spyer
(00:58:55) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : +/-away away reason sets MyBotNick on away and back
(00:58:56) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : die disconnects MyBotNick *the bot*
(00:58:57) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : system info show MyBotNick's system infos
(00:58:58) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : calcualte equation and or math problem ie: calculate 1+1
(00:58:58) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : controls shows bot controls
(00:58:59) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : entertainment shows a list of entertainments
(00:59:00) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : publiccmds shows public commands
(00:59:01) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : logs shows log names and how many lines per log
(00:59:02) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : readlog logname <number> reads log names starting from line specified
(00:59:03) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : help shows MyBotNick's basic help
(00:59:04) ›› Msg: to [ MyBotNick ] : level <level> displays user(s) on specified level
(00:59:05) ›› Msg: to [ ] : =-==-==-==-==-===-==-==-==-==-==-==-==-==-==-==-==-==-=
