Packet loss isn't anything to worry about unless it's a high number or happens really often.
As for the rest... what do you mean by "until my isp shows in green" ... can you copy/paste what you're referring to? Actually, copy/paste your entire connect stuff (see below as an example).
* Connecting to irc.velocityirc.net (6667)
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-saralum.criten.net- *** Looking up your hostname...
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-saralum.criten.net- *** Checking Ident
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* Identd request from 213.202.245.12
* Identd replied: 1038, 6667 : USERID : Windows : Riamus
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-saralum.criten.net- *** Found your hostname
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-saralum.criten.net- *** Got Ident response
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> Welcome to The Criten IRC Network Riamus!Riamus@c-71-232-85-249.hsd1.ma.comcast.net
> Your host is saralum.criten.net[@0.0.0.0], running CritenIRCd(a1)-1.4(04)
...and so on...
