Screw that man, don't follow that dumb ass biatch. If she
wanted to be with you, she wouldn't take off to another
country knowing you don't have the money to go with her.
Open your eyes and let her find some other fool to support
her dumb ass. You're better off without her.
I sort of agree, except the fact that there is a baby involved. I strongly urge you to convince her to move with YOU, not this chasing her to her mommy's house thing. Here you are just getting yourself established and she wants to leave you with the child (as yet unborn) or force you to give up what you are building on employment wise and chase off to Holland where I am sure the job prospects are not as good.
I have held back from commenting as I don't want to come off as negative on your choice, but really I do think she should stay with you rather than the way you have described the path you are choosing.
