what do ya think, we are all morons...
if it were a case of a router and or my provider i wouldnt post the problem to a mirc forum <geeeez>
and by the way i got all the bandwidth i need, unless someone is giving out free T-3s.
Online, your fix is exactly what was needed, i figured that one out myself, but it needed to be posted as well
thanks for saving me the time :-)