ok, i got
Code:
menu nicklist {
  .+e $1: mode $chan +e $1
}

menu nicklist {
  .-e $1: mode $chan -e $1
}


and that works fine, but it sets mode name!*@*, anyway i could make that add it as *!*@host, also, is there a raw command that opens up the channel exempt list?

looks like 348 is it, but...how could i make a script so if i right click the channel, it says Except List > (then lists them all)