It's not hard to understand your point-of-view at all. Is it so hard for you to understand the software manufacturer's point of view? They have to create their product to work for a variety of users, and are (by default) forced to add SOME "features" to keep problems to a minimum, because of the overabundance of people that DO "click on anything" because someone told them to, or out of curiousity.
If you can't live with that, I suggest you write your own, because that seems to be the only way to satisfy your personal wants/needs.
