LOL ignore me :P
on ^*:SNOTICE:*Received KILL message*: { $iif($8 == $me $+ ., server serverhere 6667, halt) }
Not sure if you really should halt this... the other option would be
on ^*:SNOTICE:*Received KILL message*:if ($8 == $me $+ .) { server serverhere 6667 }