actually i did read it all and didnt see anything i havent asked, the funny thing is i dont believe its a router issue or anything, it definetly something on the pc.

I realized just now my virus scan (which my friend is also using same version) was saying my Mirc was a "pup" (potentialy unwanted program) whch it never did before, so i turned it off (to scan for pups) just left it scanning all files, and i am mirc now and still going strong, if this works i will let you know.

Im using McAfee.VirusScan.v9 home