well that wasnt the only problem, $readini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,$nick) returned the wrong thing, and i had two seperate on *:notice:*:*: events. i believe i got it all in working order now... let me know if theres anything i can do to improve it.
Code:
dialog aid {
  title "AIDv2.2"
  size -1 -1 80 129
  option dbu
  list 1, 2 15 50 100, size
  edit "", 2, 2 2 50 10, autohs
  button "Add", 3, 53 1 26 12
  button "Remove", 4, 53 16 26 12
  button "Clear All", 5, 53 29 26 12
  button "OK", 6, 2 116 37 12, ok
  button "Cancel", 7, 41 116 37 12, cancel
  menu "Config", 8
  menu "On/Off", 9, 8
  item "On", 14, 9
  item break, 15, 9
  item "Off", 16, 9
  item break, 10, 8
  menu "Ident Method", 12, 8
  item "Nickserv", 13, 12
  item break, 18, 12
  item "On Connect", 17, 12
  item break, 23, 8
  menu "AutoGhost", 22, 8
  item "On", 24, 22
  item break, 25, 22
  item "Off", 26, 22
  item break, 11, 8
  item "Help", 19, 8
  item break, 20, 8
  item "About", 21, 8
}
;Events
on *:dialog:aid:init:0:{
  $iif(%aidtog,did -c aid 14,did -c aid 16)
  $iif(%methtog.1,did -c aid 13,did -u aid 13)
  $iif(%methtog.2,did -c aid 17,did -u aid 17)
  $iif(%ghst,did -c aid 24,did -c aid 26)
  var %totl = $ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,0)
  while (%totl) {
    did -a aid 1 $ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,%totl) $readini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,$ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,%totl))
    dec %totl
  }
}
on *:dialog:aid:sclick:3:{ 
  if ($did(aid,2) != $null) {
    if ($chr(32) !isin $did(aid,2)) { echo -a Read the Help Please. (Click Config > Help) }
    else { did -a aid 1 $did(aid,2) | writeini $+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,") $network $gettok($did(aid,2),1,32) $gettok($did(aid,2),2,32) | .notify $gettok($did(aid,2),1,32) | did -r aid 2 }
  }
}
on *:dialog:aid:sclick:4:{ 
  if ($did(aid,1).sel) {
    var %sel.num = $did(aid,1).sel
    var %sel.txt = $did(aid,1).seltext
    did -d aid 1 %sel.num
    remini $+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,") $network $gettok(%sel.txt,1,32)
  }
}
on *:dialog:aid:sclick:5:{ did -r aid 1 | remini aid.ini $network }
on *:dialog:aid:menu:14:{
  if (!%aidtog) { set %aidtog on | did -u aid 16 }
  did -c aid 14
}
on *:dialog:aid:menu:13:{
  if (%methtog.2) { unset %methtog.2 | did -u aid 17 }
  did -c aid 13
  set %methtog.1 on
}
on *:dialog:aid:menu:16:{
  if (%aidtog) { unset %aidtog | did -u aid 14 }
  did -c aid 16
}
on *:dialog:aid:menu:17:{
  if (%methtog.1) { unset %methtog.1 | did -u aid 13 }
  did -c aid 17
  set %methtog.2 on
}
on *:dialog:aid:menu:19:{
  echo -s -----
  echo -s AIDv2 Help
  echo -s Enter Username and Password into the editbox seperated by a space.
  echo -s Hit the Add button ... Your Username and Password are now saved.
  echo -s Remember to make sure you have AIDv2 enabled otherwise it will not Identify automatically.
  echo -s -----
}
on *:dialog:aid:menu:21:{
  echo -s -----
  echo -s AIDv2 by Pariah
  echo -s ­12http://beam.to/pariah­
  echo -s -----
}
on *:dialog:aid:menu:24:{
  if (!%ghst) { set %ghst on | did -u aid 26 }
  did -c aid 24
}
on *:dialog:aid:menu:26:{
  if (%ghst) { unset %ghst | did -u aid 24 }
  did -c aid 26
} 
on *:notice:*:*:{
  if ($nick == nickserv) {
    if (*registered*and*protected* iswm $1-) {
      if (%aidtog) && (%methtog.1) {
        if ($ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network)) && ($ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,$me)) {
          nickserv identify $readini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,$me)
        }
      }
    }
    if (*killed* iswm $1-) {
      nick %ghstnick
      unset %ghostnick
    }
  }
}
on *:connect:{
  if (%aidtog) && (%methtog.2) {
    if ($ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network)) && ($ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,$me)) {
      nickserv identify $readini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,$me)
    }
  }
}
on *:notify:{ 
  if (%ghst) {
    set %ghstnick $nick
    var %y = $ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,0)
    if ($+(*,$nick,*) iswm $ini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,%y) && ($nick != $me)) { 
      ghost
    }
  }
}
;Aliases
alias ghost { nickserv ghost %ghstnick $readini($+(",$scriptdiraid.ini,"),$network,%ghstnick)) }
alias aid dialog -dm aid aid
;Popups
menu status,channel {
  AIDv2.2
  .Configure:aid
  .-
  .On/Off
  ..AutoIdent
  ...$iif(%aidtog,$style(1)) On:set %aidtog on
  ...-
  ...$iif(!%aidtog,$style(1)) Off:unset %aidtog
  ..AutoGhost
  ...$iif(%ghstog,$style(1)) On:set %ghstog on
  ...-
  ...$iif(!%ghstog,$style(1)) Off:unset %ghstog
  .Method
  ..$iif(%methtog.1,$style(1)) Nickserv:set %methtog.1 on | unset %methtog.2
  ..-
  ..$iif(%methtog.2,$style(1)) On Connect:set %methtog.2 on | unset %methtog.1
}