Forums Connection Issues Can't seem to connect to bot

Regis nickname / server / chatroom

friend and I are starting a room, got a bot working on his computer, I tried to get file i get this

[XDCC-TSR1 RDCC] c 04SysReset 06RDCC 04Server is active. Waiting 45 seconds before switching to standard dccserver on port 59.

any reason why? I have to change my port or something