Forums Connection Issues problem when i connect 2 clients

it take me about 2-5minutes to connect to the server.. it take like 2 sec to the other user of this server..
when i log in on other server, its really fast but on THIS server it take about 2-5 minutes..
i tried to open the port 6667 on my firewall, but its doing nothing..
i use a 32bit vista comp..
i am using a script name sitterirc.. it is used to give free game on diablo 2 ON irc.. and it is connecting trough a cmd prompt... but once i connect with it, it get my current irc NICK disconnected.. its like it is not letting me connect 2 client on the same server.. but every1 is doing it lol..
it is working on other server cuz i tried it..
some people are using the same script on the server i use and all is working.. but not for me
so i tough that i was the long wait connect problem.. it might be it or it might not..

all i want its to be able to connect 2 clients on the same server..
how do i fix that ?
thanks for helping..
if you dont understand, post it here i'll answer your question !

is it hanging on "*** Looking up hostname" or "*** Checking ident"? This is both the server's and your fault-- the server is attempting to connect to you on port 113 to verify your ident but it cannot and is probably waiting to timeout (maybe on purpose). It's also your fault because you're not allowing it to connect to you.

There are two solutions: either use another server (on the same network) that doesn't enforce identd checks as strictly, or, if they all do this, fix your identd by visiting http://www.portforward.com and setting up port forwarding in your router to your LAN ip on port 113. For this second suggestion I'm making the assumption that you're both behind a router and have access to it; if either assumption is false this won't work either.

i tried to open the port 113 on my router but it didnt work, cuz when i tested it with the portchecker, it told it was not open !!

you have to do a couple of things.

1. you must setup a static IP for your computer
2. you have to forward port 113 (not open) TO that static ip that is your computer.

It would help you ro read the port forwarding progression written by Dave Clark at portforward.com

the port is now open but i am still getting disconnected when my 2nd client is trying to log on...

* [10053] Software caused connection abort

this is what i received in my log !

Huge sticky regarding this error

it did the error when i tried to open my second client...

i still need help ???????????????6

god damnit any1 is going to help me ?

Please watch your tone in the forums, especially when you are asking for help (which nobody here is obliged to offer).

Also, you've asked for help more than once. Futher posting is not going to magically generate helpful replies - it just annoys forum readers.