I can log in on the rest of the servers just fine
I'm getting kinda desperate going to go stab myself in the eye a few times to calm my nerves .... I'm open to suggestions if I'm doing something wrong connecting to the server

Start by giving the URL for the server your trying to connect to. Second, relax! There are other things in life than one irc server,

... I waited 30 min *sniff *

I kept timing out

Still no ircserver name.....

snow,
Since the IRC is made up of thousands of seperate servers and networks, if you do not provide the name of the server your trying to connect to, there is NOTHING we can do to help.

Please provide the server name and URL.

Thanks

to everyone, not just one person, irchighway just uses one server to route all users to the most appropriate location. they do not provide a list of servers to the public. all connections go through irc.irchighway.net (and no, it's not down)

Thanks for the education!