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this thread Welcome to mIRC's msg board. Just by way of introduction, many common questions are answered in threads set to stay at the top of each forum (with an icon that looks like a pushpin). As well, you can make use of our search feature to find answers. Be sure to set it to "all forums" and expand the date range, while using search terms that are explicit, like in this case using dcc pending would have gotten you a lot of threads with the answer so you wouldnt have had to wait
