Sorry, keep forgetting I posted previously. I've replied to them now. I tried connecting to all those IP addresses given to me previously, but 'conn refused' always comes up.
Im not on a network, and I tried setting up (using only) my XP firewall to work using the guide, then disabling it and using none, but the same message keeps coming up.
Its the same problem with connecting as with Kazaa Lite++,mIRC and ICQLite, I just dont know what is causing it.
Im certain my norton firewall must have tampered with some default net settings or something,as even when its disabled I cant connect.
I know other people using XP who have no probs at all, and are using pretty much the same setup, but with a different firewall program installed (although they obviously disable it to use mIRC)