Make sure you read this
Particuarly:"try getting a file from someone else. The problem is often on the senders end"
I'd like to mention the fact that the DCC option was, I imagine, originally added for friends to send pictures or .txt files to each other...not for hundreds of xDCC bots to be loaded and for people to download illegal, copyrighted, material I
If you use the Search function and search for "DCC Pending" and expand it to 'All Forums' and search on 'All Posts' then there's just about every possibility covered. Otherwise, *shrugs*.