There is nothing wrong with people asking you not to cross post - it is against the rules on this (and almost every other) forum, and every helper's assistance in running the forum is appreciated. If you feel better having someone who is in charge telling you what to do here, then listen to me instead: Don't cross post, thanks. Your other thread has been deleted.
Almost all of the information we have on the disconnection message you're experiencing can be found in
this sticky thread. I know it's a long thread but try to read through it and follow any instructions that apply to you. Also see CtrlAltDel's first post here, and follow his advice in posting the information required.
Everyone: Please now keep this thread related to ryantbh's original problem. All this flaming isn't helping anyone. Thanks!
Regards,