Maybe it's best to tell your wife she needs some anger control therapy or a big punching bag to work off the stress.
The forum rules on this forum discourage helping with mass commands, and a fullblown channel takeover script classifies as something the IRC community can go without.
By the way, if you are the channel founder, you can do it manually, if you're not then you shouldn't have the founder password anyway and you can't do any harm that's irreversible. Note that the kind of access levels and stuff you talk about is specific to some irc servers, it is no standard irc feature and thus there is no way of knowing how it is implemented on your server or how to use it.